Well since I've apparently been blocked from commenting on her deviantart for trying to reason with her, Ill post my response here. If any of you can get this to her it would be much appreciated.
But you have no evidence that the people who used those terms are the same who run this convention. All you have is that they leaked info to an image board dedicated to My Little Pony. For all I know, they may have felt worried and that they had legitimate cause to do so. All the shit that came afterwards about your gender identity and whatever operations you've had is just 4chan being 4chan.
To be quite frank, all you do by responding to it like t